Optional repair routine design ============================== Optional blank sheet. Use only where appropriate for your privacy and circumstances. Do not add identifying or sensitive details unnecessarily. This is not therapy, legal advice, a safety assessment or a crisis service. The ordinary practical purpose: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ What remains unresolved or unfinished: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ One small optional action: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ Who actually wants to participate: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ A workable alternative if someone declines: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ The agreed timing: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ How the action begins and ends: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ A stop option without a penalty: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ One question about practical usefulness: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ What needs a formal process or safety support instead: ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ Original educational worksheet — RelateWell Guide Article: https://relatewellguide.com/articles/apology-forgiveness-choose-a-repair-ritual-after-conflict/ Editorial revision: 2026-11-04